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What if I told you there was a whole community of adults who were building relationships around living authentically as their inner little selves?

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Comments Now I consider myself a very open minded person.

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Age play bdsm I am little and my partner knows that is where my hepace is, I know I can trust him to take care of me. I am not being abused, and my partners are not abusers. Learn how your comment data is processed. There are exceptions to every single rule on earth. I am little, I am too little for all the responsibilities and worries of grown up life.

But it can also be a way for some victims to work through their trauma, or simply age play bdsm express their sexuality. Seek help and stop perpetuating this kind of abuse. If ageplay is stigmatized as an inherently abusive activity due to its association with pedophilia, then this stigma damages me and my partners equally.

Whatever reason people have to engage in ageplay, for me and others this is an important part of our sexual expression. There are more ethical age players than not. Slipping into my littlespace is like, taking your bra off and finally pouring that glass of wine at the end of the a long day.

I writed for you a big, long, boring, grown-uppy, post that talks all about grown ups and grown up things and the silly things grown ups do. I think it encourages pedophilia and age play bdsm man who wants to jerk his dick to a fantasy age play bdsm a little girl being sexual for him deserves to have his dick chopped off. What about my partners?

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Just like other sexual practices, regardless of how ready a minor may feel, it is wrong for an adult to ageplay with them. Thank you for sharing how you feel about this kind of material, which we agree can be triggering. So, they go online and seek age play bdsm others. Prostasia Foundation.

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We ageplay in a fictional, safe, consensual fantasy world in which they can exercise their nurturing, parental instincts with age play bdsm sexual partner, and I can enjoy feeling carefree and loved. Now I consider myself a very open age play bdsm person. The ability to negotiate beforehand exactly what both partners do or do not want, gives one an ability to move more freely inside the parameters of a relationship because they are more clearly set.

I love rainbows, and unicorns, and my kitty cats, and my stuffies, and arts and crafts, and reading stories and watching cartoons. However, as with much of the other kinks I engage in, if I look back, I can clearly see behaviors going back to early childhood that hinted at my future expressions of sexuality and identity.

You finally get to put on sweatpants, binge some bad television, and just be yourself. This means accepting it as a valid form of adult age play bdsm sexual expression, and allowing real minors who have questions about it to have those questions answered without shame… but also with a firm resolve that this kink is not for them.

For age play bdsm people, their sexual fantasies run a little darker than this, and do extend to fantasies of abuse.

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If you are lucky, your child finds someone like me who gives them educational resources that will help them explore safely on their own until they are old enough age play bdsm the community. I refuse to accept that my sexuality has to be either defined by or limited by what happened to me in the past.

Applying child development principles to online child protection. It only takes one accusation of some sort of sexual impropriety with a minor for an entire convention, event, or organization to get shut down. We still, as a society, so heavily age play bdsm sex that there is no real impetus for a minor to go to one of the age play bdsm authority figures in their life for general sex questions, let alone anything they know to be outside the mainstream.

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. See, I may play as age play bdsm younger version of myself and my Daddy may enjoy playing with me and caring for me when I am in a more vulnerable or a different kind of playful space than my adult self, but I assure you, I am all stocked up on my own agency, and am older than I generally like to admit.

A primer on consent. Very few minors with an interest in kink are comfortable expressing that to parents and teachers, age play bdsm even friends.

Having said that, statistically there must surely be at least some Bigs who are also sexually attracted to real minors, and for those people ageplay may be a safe, legal outlet for those feelings. So there is no sexual trauma tied to my littlespace and, I refuse to accept that my sexuality has to be either defined by or limited by what happened to age play bdsm in the past.

Littlespace is like sweatpants and wine for my brain and I find that my body typically follows.

I am a person who has experienced both child abuse and sexual assault, but I was not sexually assaulted as a minor. You might even like doing some of it. Sex education makes people safer. I also sometimes find it extremely challenging to let walls down with partners. This makes a difference—a big one. But for the most part, age play bdsm are likely to simply be turned away.

Why do i ageplay?

Even as young child, I often enjoyed playing make believe as an even younger child or baby, along with other make believe roles such as mermaid or princess. I work in the sex industry and support many types of kinks however as age play bdsm who was sexually molested as I child I can tell you first hand that this age play bdsm of porn when it pops up on my ManyVids feed is extremely triggering.

In my littlespace, I am able to access and share a more open and vulnerable part of myself. Related posts: Who should be excluded from child protection?

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Facebook Tweet LinkedIn. But whatever age play bdsm ageplay takes, the BDSM community considers it to be a kink, which means that it is for adults only. The more space I am allowed to be little, the more naturally it fits me. Those who abuse children in real life, by having sex with them or by distributing images age play bdsm such abuse, must be punished to the full extent of the law.

We ageplay in a fictional, safe, consensual fantasy world. So as hard as it may be for outsiders to understand the attraction of this lifestyle, we need to stop treating ageplayers in the same way as you would treat child molesters.

Ageplay is for adults

Why do I ageplay? Nobody is harmed by it, and we should not be pathologized or stigmatized for our sexuality.

Now that I am an adult, the main reason I ageplay, frankly, is because it feels good. This distinguishes ageplay from age regression, which is rooted in therapeutic methods for working through past trauma. Prostasia Age play bdsm Protecting children by upholding the rights and freedoms of all.